it s been some time that i play on BSW, and what realy shocked me , that there is some people so rude, so agressive, and they realy consider playing here as a "job", of course there s some ethics in playing, communicating with other players, agreeing with them....
any way, i want to post this conversation: (by the way,i was also mean, i hate narrow minded people)  :

""  ThePilgrim: just letting you know that I reported you for dropping
Du sagst:
ThePilgrim: if you start a game of carcassonne, you should finish it...
Du sagst: there s things in life more important than a game, i said sorry and left
Du sagst: so???
ThePilgrim: no you didn't... you just left
ThePilgrim: furthermore you should leave, regardless what you say
Du sagst: so, i excuse then
ThePilgrim: yeah, but you'll be blacklisted for that
ThePilgrim: so don't bother
Du sagst: i dont care
ThePilgrim: good for you... i'm dying to see how long you will last on bsw
Du sagst: go have a life
ThePilgrim: go learn how to play...
Du sagst: how old are you by the way?
ThePilgrim: none of your business
Du sagst: also rude........mmmmmmmmmmmm
ThePilgrim: i just think it's none of your business... it's not rude
Du sagst: are you the saint of carcassonne
Du sagst: don t be childish
ThePilgrim: no, i just don't like people dropping
Du sagst: so, dont be childish, it s agame after all,
Du sagst: and i said i m sorry, so what do u want more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ""
so... i want to know what kind of community are we building here? narrow minded people, who dont want to accept apologies nor communicate, just want to report,and blacklist people, !!!!! come on, we re not in a military acadmy, nor "stasi"
i know it s not nice to  quit a game, but does it require all the fuss that mr. thepilgrim did?

p.s. on the other hand there s plenty of nice and good people,who still have their human "side", and who are also good players,

thanks a lot